IEPfocus: IEP, Autism and ADHD Help for Teachers and Parents

Transition assessment guide for IEP teams and parents: formal and informal tools, what to assess at each age, and how results shape postsecondary goals.

Stephanie Bermed - November 6, 2026

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Autism

What a Meltdown Is Not: 10 Truths Every Parent and Teacher Should Know (2026)

What a meltdown is not: 10 truths that show why meltdowns are not tantrums, choices or manipulation, plus what helps during, after and before.

Stephanie Bermed - November 5, 2026

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Classroom Strategies

Regulation-first strategies, accommodations and tools for inclusive classrooms.

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PDA in the Classroom: Strategies That Work for Teachers (2026)

PDA in the classroom needs a different approach. Learn why rewards backfire and how choice, declarative language, and low demands help students with PDA.

Stephanie Bermed - October 12, 2026

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IEP Goal Bank: The Ultimate Guide for Special Education Teams (2026)

Discover 130+ neurodiversity-affirming SMART IEP goals for autism, ADHD, PDA, AuDHD, executive functioning, behavior, and communication. Written by a special education specialist, ready to customize for your students.

Stephanie Bermed - March 28, 2026

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Behavior & Regulation

Supporting Students With Emotional Dysregulation: 10 Steps for Teachers (2026)

Supporting students with emotional dysregulation: triggers, calming language, co-regulation, classroom supports, IEP accommodations and repair.

Stephanie Bermed - October 9, 2026

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Classroom

10 Simple Strategies to Manage Hyperactivity in the Classroom (2026)

Learn how to manage hyperactivity in the classroom with 10 research-backed, regulation-first strategies for students with ADHD, movement breaks, flexible seating, sensory tools, and IEP goals.

Stephanie Bermed - April 6, 2026

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IEP & 504 Guides and Goal Banks

SMART goals, accommodations and meeting tools for every IEP team.

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IEP & 504

Age of Majority: 5 Essential Facts About IEP Rights at 18 (2026)

Age of majority in special education: which IEP rights transfer at 18, the one-year notice rule, a planning timeline and decision-support options.

Stephanie Bermed - November 6, 2026

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IEP & 504

Transition Assessment: 6 Essential Tools to Plan Life After High School (2026)

Transition assessment guide for IEP teams and parents: formal and informal tools, what to assess at each age, and how results shape postsecondary goals.

Stephanie Bermed - November 6, 2026

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IEP & 504

Extended School Year (ESY): 6 Proven Factors and the Best Way to Qualify (2026)

Extended school year services explained: 6 eligibility factors, the data that decides ESY, a planning calendar and examples by need.

Stephanie Bermed - October 29, 2026

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Behavior & Regulation

Restraint and Seclusion in Schools: 6 Essential Steps to Keep Your Child Safe (2026)

Restraint and seclusion in schools: definitions, data, state rules, warning signs, 6 steps after an incident and prevention-first plans.

Stephanie Bermed - October 29, 2026

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Behavior & Regulation

Manifestation Determination: 2 Powerful Questions That Protect Your Child (2026)

Manifestation determination explained: when it is required, the 2 questions, the 45-day rule, how to prepare and what to say.

Stephanie Bermed - October 29, 2026

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Routines, sleep, emotions and IEP support for families.

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Proven PDA Strategies for Parents: What the Evidence Actually Says (2026)

Discover evidence-based PDA strategies for parents that actually reduce demand avoidance and crisis cycles demand shaping, low-demand communication, adapted CBT, FCT, and a printable action plan.

Stephanie Bermed - April 12, 2026

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Behavior & Regulation

Behavior Is Communication: 10 Classroom Behaviors and What Students Really Need

Behavior is communication: 10 common classroom behaviors decoded with 100 examples of what adults see and what students may be trying to say, plus strategies for each.

Stephanie Bermed - October 13, 2026

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At Home

Low Demand Parenting for PDA: The Complete Parent Guide [2026]

Low demand parenting for PDA reduces everyday demands to protect your child's nervous system. Discover 15 affirming strategies that actually work at home.

Stephanie Bermed - April 19, 2026

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At Home

Advocating for Your Child with Special Needs: The Complete 2026 Parent Guide

Learn how to advocate powerfully for your child with special needs. IEP meetings, school rights, evaluations & self-advocacy strategies, practical 2026 guide for parents.

Stephanie Bermed - April 21, 2026

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Teens & Adults

Neurodivergent Teens & Adults

Transitions, independence, burnout and adult life with autism and ADHD.

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Teens & Adults

Adult ADHD Daily Systems | 30 Printable Routines for Real Life Structure

Struggling to start, stay on track, or wind down? This 38-page printable system was built for the adult ADHD brain, not the brain you wish you had.

Stephanie Bermed - April 11, 2026

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Teens & Adults

PDA and ADHD: Understanding the Overlap and Key Differences (2026)

PDA and ADHD are frequently confused, and frequently co-occur. Learn the key differences, why both are so often missed together, and what support actually works when both profiles are present.

Stephanie Bermed - April 12, 2026

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Teens & Adults

ODD in Adults: When Defiance Is Misunderstood

Oppositional Defiant Disorder doesn't end in childhood. Discover the neurological roots, real symptoms, and evidence-based strategies for adults with ODD, plus a recommended visual guide by BERMED.

Stephanie Bermed - March 30, 2026

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Teens & Adults

AuDHD in Adults: What Schools Miss When Girls Grow Up Undiagnosed

When girls with AuDHD go undiagnosed through childhood, they do not simply grow out of their difficulties. They carry them into adulthood as anxiety, depression, burnout, relationship struggles, and professional instability.

Stephanie Bermed - April 4, 2026

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Conditions

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA): A Comprehensive Overview for Parents and Educators

A complete overview of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) for parents and educators: signs, causes and supportive strategies.

Stephanie Bermed - March 28, 2026

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Classroom

PDA in the Classroom: Strategies That Work for Teachers (2026)

PDA in the classroom needs a different approach. Learn why rewards backfire and how choice, declarative language, and low demands help students with PDA.

Stephanie Bermed - October 12, 2026

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Conditions

Autism in Girls: Why It Looks Different, Why It Gets Missed, and What Actually Helps

Autism in girls is one of the most underdiagnosed conditions in child development, and the cost of missing it is measured in years of anxiety, burnout, and lost identity.

Stephanie Bermed - March 28, 2026

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Conditions

Understanding Dyslexia Support: A Complete 2026 Guide for Educators

Dyslexia support guide for educators, parents & IEP teams in 2026: structured literacy, accommodations, IEP goals, tech tools & the BERMED framework. Evidence-based

Stephanie Bermed - April 22, 2026

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Conditions

What Is Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria (RSD)? Evidence-Based Guide 2026

Rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) in ADHD evidence-based guide for special education teachers

Stephanie Bermed - April 12, 2026

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Teens & Adults

Adult ADHD Daily Systems | 30 Printable Routines for Real Life Structure

Struggling to start, stay on track, or wind down? This 38-page printable system was built for the adult ADHD brain, not the brain you wish you had.

Stephanie Bermed - April 11, 2026

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Special Education Glossary: Terms & Acronyms for Parents & Educators

Complete glossary of 150+ special education terms, acronyms, and definitions. IEP, FAPE, LRE, accommodations, IDEA law, and more for parents, teachers, and neurodivergent individuals.

Stephanie Bermed - April 5, 2026

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Product Guides

Best Sensory Gifts for Kids With Special Needs: 15 Picks by Sensory Need

Sensory gift ideas for kids with special needs, chosen by sensory profile: calming, movement, tactile and fidget options.

Stephanie Bermed - April 6, 2026

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Free Tools

Special Education Glossary: 210 SPED Terms Defined (Free PDF)

Free interactive special education glossary with 210 IEP terms, disability categories, neurodiversity vocabulary, and legal acronyms. Searchable online + free PDF download.

Stephanie Bermed - April 11, 2026

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Product Guides